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A Valentines Day guide to dress code So you've been asked out, or you are taking someone out on a date for Valentines Day? Well the hardest part is over but now you have to decide what to wear. It is just as import for guys as well as girls to think about what to wear when going out, especially if Valentines Day is your first date. Below are some simple pointers, no steadfast rules as you don't want your individuality to be lost -- just some food for thought. A girl's dilemma When going on a date, first impressions count so it's important you think about what you are wearing. The way you express yourself in what you wear on a date will influence how your partner will view you, just as much as the conversations you have and what you reveal about yourself. With that in mind it's important that you remain true to yourself, wear something you like and feel comfortable in, but maybe avoid some of the extremes. The obvious place to start is with old rule -- don't dress too provocatively. Yes its Valentines Day and yes, you may feel loved up -- but turning up to your date dressed in your best cleavage popping suspender showing pvc little number will only give one type of first impression -- and it stands a good chance of sending your date running in the opposite direction. While a little dressing up never hurt anyone, it's something that it probably best left to the intimacy of your own home when you can share a mutual fantasy! Another key point is that you should have thought about what you want to wear in advance. You don't want to end up late because you couldn't decide what to wear and end up rushing out the house feeling dishevelled and not very 'together' at all. Choose something you feel confident in and make sure it really is something that will last the whole evening and not make you fidget. Seeing someone constantly pulling down their hem or yanking something up is really not very attractive. If you are unsure about something then get the opinion of a friend beforehand. These boots were made for walking Ladies, please ensure you actually can walk in your shoes! There is no need to go all sensible and get out your sturdy black courts: just make sure you can walk more than a couple of metres. Practice looking at yourself while walking in the mirror and check you don't look like a waddling chicken. There is nothing worse than seeing a girl that can't walk properly in her shoes and no guy is going to want to hear about the pain in your feet, especially on a first date. Easy on the war paint While planning your outfit think about what make up you'd like to wear too. That way you'll feel composed as you glide out of the door. Wear make up that you love: don't make the mistake of trying out a new technique or shade on the evening of your date. It could go wrong and you might not feel like 'you' and your date will be able to tell immediately! A word about your smalls and delicates Make sure your undergarments go correctly with your outfit. Check that they don't cause unnecessary bulges in the wrong place or show through and look silly. Picking good lingerie, even if it's not going to be shown off, can make you feel confident and sexy from the inside, which should help your date run a little smoother. If your lingerie is meant for display, this can quite often imply some level of ornamentation with a few extra straps or frills or bows (depending on your tastes). Do make sure that it will all stay in place and not cause your outfit (or you!) to sit uncomfortably. Something for the guys and the girls One of the most important things to think about when choosing an outfit for a date is to ensure that you dress appropriately for the occasion. If your date involves dinner and a movie then don't turn up in a suit or your best party frock just because you are trying to make a good impression. This will only make you look silly and perhaps make the other person feel uncomfortable if they have dressed more casually. If you are really unsure as to how to dress then maybe take a jacket, for the guys -- a tie that can be added or removed, for the girls -- a sneaky pair of flats or a glamorous top (invest in a stylish larger hand bag) so you can change your outfit slightly if you think it is needed. Also dress appropriately for February, it's most likely it will still be cold and if your gorgeous little shift looks stupid with anything other than beautifully tanned bare legs and arms then it's not the right dress for this occasion. The same applies for guys, that figure hugging top that looked great with your tan when you came back from holiday may not look so good with your winter complexion and post Christmas 'spare tyre'! Now onto the guys While it might be slightly easier to dress there are still some things to mull over before you get on your way. The same rules generally apply – wear something you feel good in. Make sure your clothes are clean and ironed and you haven't overdone it on the cologne (there's no need to smell you coming). Wear clothes that fit you well and look neat and not too worn: ill fitting clothes just look silly. And finally remember your clothes are an extension of who you are and should reflect your personality, don't turn up in a new shirt with the creases still in it from when it was in the box. Wear something you love and know you look good in -- and more importantly in which other people tell you that you look good! And finally Finally now that you're perfectly prepared for your date don't forget to enjoy it and have fun! Also don't forget your Valentines Day card and present! It's a lovely gesture to give your date a small gift, so think about what they might like. You could buy a Valentines Day mug if your date loves a coffee break or a nice photograph frame if there are some pictures of the two of you that would look good in it. You could even indulge in one of the many personalised gifts that are available such as love poems, boxes of chocolates or even a rose bush or personalised star! |
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